it is not everyday that you get asked to write a chapter in a training resource for kids ministry. then, when you hear you get to be a part of a ministry resource with some of your favorite #kidmin friends, well you are just humbled, challenged, and full of smiles. here are some people, way smarter than me, that contribute to this resource:
recently, church leaders asked me to write a chapter about ministry to younger children for their children’s ministry volunteer handbook. not only was i challenged, i learned so much as i researched, wrote, and evaluated my own ministry.
Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these” (Matthew 19:14).
This resource also come sin a 5-pack for your team.
One way to impact the next generation of Christ-followers is to serve in the children’s ministry at your church! Whether you teach or assist in a children’s class, provide administrative help, or volunteer in the nursery, this handy little book is for you. Inside this volunteer handbook you will find helpful information and insights, such as…
Teaching tips for kids at various ages — from nursery to pre-teen
Age-level insights and characteristics
Children’s ministry team roles and functions
Classroom management ideas and techniques
Including children with special needs
Playing with kids and partnering with parents
Also included in this book are supply lists, safety information, ministry team discussion questions, and more!
here is the fun news! i get to give a copy away! please comment on this post about how this resource would be helpful to you. i will pick a winner and one copy of this book will be mailed to you for FREE!
each year as we usher in a new group of preteens (5th graders) we try to make an intentional effort to get to know them, help them grow closer to one another, and help them grow closer to God. we call this event mission smasH. (our 5th grade name is smasH – students’ ministering and serving Him.)
i am attaching the schedule below and will give a brief description of what that activity looks like.
6pm- arrive: check in at the dawson kids greeter stand
kids get name tags & pizza in snack room.
welcome, prayer, and intro to mission smasH – the rules to mission smasH are very simple. the adult chaperones will not answer any questions from the 5th graders. the adults are there to help keep the kids safe and to chaperone, but the kids are challenged to work together to complete each mission throughout the night.kids will work through a series of cd clues that will be hidden in different areas of the church. the kids have to elect a leader and the leader is in charge of making sure they always have the cd player and Bible. the clues spell out the instructions for each mission. (we did try to upgrade to something more modern than cds, some kids don’t know how to use them, but we haven’t found the right thing yet.)
clue hidden in smasH ball and bandana room. – this clue is hidden in a room that has a circle made out of bandanas on the floor.(the bandanas are in the color of the smasH group – each year has a different color.) in the middle of the circle is a large playground ball with the word smasH written on it as well as the name of each child attending that night. kids are given the rules of the smasH ball. these are also simple, but it sure gets complicated and fun as the night goes on.
the smasH ball has to have a 5th grader’s palm on it at all times, even when going through other activities and missions. the only exception is that each chaperone can hold it once during the night. all kids have to have had their palm on the ball at some point in the night. if at any point a chaperone sees the ball without a palm on it for more than three seconds (the chaperone will count aloud) the kids have to add another palm. some years the kids are focused and have great strategy. some years they end up needing eight palms on the ball.
after they hear about the ball they are giving a teamwork challenge. (they do have to make sure to get their flashlight to take with them for the next challenge.) the smasH leader, that was voted on by their peers in the first room, will pick a helper of the opposite gender to assist them as they are challenged to lead the entire ground downstairs blindfolded to a room behind the sanctuary. kids usually get in some sort of train with arms on the shoulders in front of them. oh how eye opening it is for the group when they complain about people talking and not listening. ultimately to kids work together to get to their next destination.
clue in foyer behind sanctuary – once the group makes it safely to the foyer behind the sanctuary they can take off their bandanas and look for the next cd clue. this pre-recorded clue calls on a child to read matthew 5:14-16. we then have a devotion with the children about how as believers they are to be a light in the darkness. they are then instructed to take out their flashlights are are guided into the dark (it works best if it is perfectly dark) sanctuary.
before the night began we have ordered smasH shirts – they are always same design tye dye – just a different color each year. we have taken that shirt and put an smasH student info sheet inside it and rolled it up and put tape on the outside with their name on it. then we take all the& shirts and hide them in the sanctuary. we try to stay off the platform or away from instruments.
once inside the dark sacntuary, they are told they have to be completely silent and use their light to find their shirt. if they find someone else’s shirt they cannot take it to them. they can find that person and take them to the shirt but not the opposite way around. when kids find their shirt, they bring it to the sanctuary lobby and open it. rolled inside is a smasH student info guide. it includes info like their school, their favorite Bible story, what they want to learn in their smasH year, etc. after they complete this, they put on their shirt for they “mug shot.” we use this pic to put on the card for their secret prayer partner.
8pm- mugshots in shirts/ info sheets (lobby) – after they finish with mug shots and sheet, go to the vestibule steps for a group picture
Clue in lobby
8:45pm- make masks (266) the mask activity, asks kids to gather around a table with a blank white, plastic mask. they are told to draw or write things on their make that they want people to believe about them, even though they may not be true. (i.e. i’m always happy, i’m not scared, etc.) after kids decorate their mask they share with the leader assigned to their table how they may wear a ;”mask” sometimes.
we then assign a student to read 1 samuel 16:7. we talk about how God isn’t looking at the outside but the inside. we also share with them that so many people come to church like everything is okay, when it really isn’t. we challenge them to be real with one another during the year.
then we give each table group a pair of scissors. we invite the kids to say “i will not wear a mask this smasH year” and then to cut their mask in half. they are to take home their half mask as a reminder.
i love the Gospel and i love geocaching. so when it came time to plan our family worship event for the spring, these two came together in what we now call pursuit. we had planned on doing some sort of Holy week or palm sunday stations with families at a worship at our church. then the thought hit me, “what if we planned these activities outside the church and allowed families time to discover and experience the Gospel together?” a quick email to three other kidmin leaders in my community made pursuit a reality. (pursuit could not have happened without the involvement of these other churches and the community we built may be my greatest treasure from this special time.)
in geocaching, the goal is to find treasures, whether micro or large boxes, using GPS coordinates and sometimes hints. geocaging has been one of my favorite outdoor, family-friendly activities for years so i thought what better treasure to find than the Gospel? plus, to do it as families just made this project sweeter. the great reward was seeing grandparents, aunts and family mentors also take part in pursuit with their families.
we recently began implementing using “the story” as the means for presenting and sharing the Gospel at our church, so “the story” was my jumping off point. i rewrote each of “the story” Gospel points to make them a little more family-friendly and interactive for this specific experience. each church had a bright orange box hidden on their campus that included these devotions, the supplies needed to complete them, and a Bible. these four devotions are attached below.
families signed up using the“band” app. this enabled up to post announcements, participants to post pictures, and we could attach the pdf that included the clues to each location as well as active links for videos and worship songs for families to listen to enroute to their next stop. this pdf is also included below.
families were encouraged to go in order. some did all four stops in one day while others chose to spread out the stops over their spring break week.
here is a quote from one of our families that participated in pursuit
“The Family Pursuit was truly a wonderful experience for our family!! We loved jumping in the car, listening to the music suggested and going on each adventure together. My husband and I loved seeing what knowledge our kids had, the questions they asked and how we as a family learned from each pursuit! We went on a little family vacation at the end of the week and loved how we were able to use what we had learned in our pursuit chase on our trip. We went on many nature walks and the kids spotted even more of God’s wonderful creations and would stop along the way and want us all to pray over where we were and to thank God for all HIS mighty handy work!! We can not thank all that was involved enough for creating such a fun family pursuit chase and look forward to doing another one if the future!!”
while we chose to test this family activity over Holy week, it can really be done at anytime. the Gospel is always relevant and we wanted to make sure families searched, experienced, and discussed these truths together. the response was so positive and encouraging. so much so that we plan to do another pursuit this fall centering on praying for back to school.
twice a year i teach a two week Gospel class for children that are seeking answers to what it means to be a Christian. at recent workshops i have taught several people have asked for the outline of this class. i thought it would be easiest to share the information here. this will be a three part series. here is what will be covered in each post:
part 1 – the what, how, and guidelines for the class part 2 – what is covered the first week of class part 3 – what is covered the second week of class.
the entire class is based on the amazing resource from the Gospel project kids curriculum, “the Gospel God’s plan for me.” you can learn more and purchase “the Gospel God’s Plan for me” booklets here. each participant receives this booklet week one to take home and read with an adult.
here is the heart behind the class – i believe that parents want to be an active part in leading their children to Christ. i also find it incredibly rewarding when a child prays to receive Christ with their parent/guardian/grandparent instead of me. so i began to wonder, how can i partner with parents/guardians to help them talk about the Gospel with their children and begin to understand if their child is ready to make this commitment of faith? i want authentic interaction between parent/guardian and child, because we often know that as kidmin leaders, we get sunday school answers. parents/guardians know their kids best, so i wanted to give them a chance to grapple with the Gospel truths. this is the very reason why i require an adult to attend each class with their child.
the model of the class – during the class we study the five truths outlined in “the Gospel God’s plan for me.” i teach each truth straight from God’s Word. (i even have them turn to the scriptures in the Bible and mark them.) children and adults then experience each truth through engaging, hands-on activities. lastly, the children and their adult discuss each truth. i provide several questions and while i have their captivated attention, i have them turn to one another and discuss these truths just taught and experienced in a safe setting.
when the class is offered – i have traditionally offered the class on sunday evenings at five, but due to busy schedules i have moved the class our early service time on sunday mornings. parents seem to like the class in the mornings. they can attend my class and still attend small group and one of our other two worship services.
the kidmin world is brimming with blogs, many great blogs. the truth is many of us just don’t have all the time we need to read through them to find the best content. that’s why i am excited to announce that i have joined the churchleaders.com team as the content editor for the children’s ministry page. it is now my job to read through tons of great kidmin blogs and post content i think would be most helpful to those of us in the kidmin community. it has already proven to be beneficial to me as i have learned so much and even implemented some ideas i have discovered on various kidmin blogs.
so if you want a one-stop site for some amazing kidmin content, check out the children’s ministry leaders page at churchleader.com. you can view it here. if you want to go the next step and subscribe to this page you will get emails delivered to your inbox with the best content along with free resource and more.
as i tackle this new role with church leaders, i would love to hear what you guys would like to see on the site. any issues or ideas you need help with? comment below and share.